Grandfriends Days - Unconditional Love

a monthly message from Executive Director Jamila Carter

Last Tuesday and Wednesday, we celebrated our annual Grandfriends Days, welcoming over 100 grandfriends. As I shared PIC's rich history with our guests, their cheers and encouragement eased my nerves and left me deeply touched. The sight of our grandfriends reading to the children, sharing stories about their childhood, and playing with children whose grandfriends couldn't attend, was a powerful reminder of the unique role that grandparents and older adults play in our children's lives.

A grandfriend's unconditional love gives children a sense of security and tells them they are valued. When older generations are with young children, they share wisdom and life experiences. Their unique perspectives enrich children's understanding of the world.

Additionally, grandfriends help preserve culture, passing down family tradition and cultural practices keeping children connected to their roots. They model kindness and patience, demonstrating qualities that inspire young children. These intergenerational relationships build empathy and communication skills and foster an appreciation for older generations.

During PIC's Grandfriends Days, the reciprocal benefits of older adult-children relationships were clear. Many grandfriends expressed the joy they felt from spending time with children. Research shows that sharing special moments with young children can deepen older adults' sense of purpose and emotional well-being, and spending time with young children may help to maintain cognitive and physical health in older age.

Grandfriends Days at PIC are two magical days filled with joy, love, and family. Our time spent with grandparents and friends highlights the beauty of intergenerational relationships.

Finally, I'd like to share a personal note. One song that holds deep meaning for me is Better Days by jazz artist Diane Reeves. The song reminds me of the special relationship I shared with my grandmother. Grandfriends Days, much like the beautiful song, is a testament to the power of love, connection, and the enduring impact of older generations on our lives. Thank you for making this day unforgettable!